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I so agree with you, Juspol. It's a world-wide problem.
The dilemma for the courts is that the person suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder is able to pretend so well to the outside world.
Borderlines have to learn to play act, in order to survive. Otherwise, they would have no family, no friends, and/or no job.
Therefore, there's no evidence for Family Law courts to base opinions on, to protect the children.
The only thing the partner to the Borderline can do is stay close to the children as best as possible, support them, comfort them, buffer the pain inflicted by the Borderline parent, tell them they're beautiful/handsome, smart, and can do anything in the world they want to do.
My dad did that for me . . . .
Lynn Melville
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Posted by: Lynn Melville | May 15, 2011 at 04:11 PM
Why give Familycourts autority to borderlinemothers en alienate the fathers of children with false accusations?
This is abuse of thousands of children also in Western Europe, en the psychiatric hospitals en youth care you can find them there sooner or later
that children, because manipulation coming from mothers en lies etc. nobody
concerns....
Posted by: Juspol | May 15, 2011 at 02:41 AM
I think you have a thorough understanding in this matter. You describe in detail all here.
Posted by: RamonGustav | August 24, 2010 at 09:01 PM
I guess I'm what you referred to as a "multiple." I have used alcohol in the past to "escape" my problems. Now I use sex, shopping, food, and occasionally gambling). Before I met my husband, I would go from one sexual partner to another seeking the "high." I go shopping and feel good when I purchase something. I overeat seeking to fill that void I feel, but the food never comes close to making me feel whole.
Even though I'm on medicine to treat my borderline, I still find myself seeking the "high" through these things. I don't even think about it; I just do it.
Posted by: BPD in OKC | April 07, 2008 at 09:15 PM