Put this site in your Favorites on your computer -- www.abusesanctuary.blogspot.com -- you'll love it.
The author of this wonderful blog has compiled the most incredible array of information, compassion, education and support for people caught in the web of a relationship with a disordered person. From Borderline to narcissist, from sociopath to batterer -- it's all here and more. The list of pages to click on goes on absolutely forever.
And did I mention the gut-wrenching first-person stories?
Make yourself a cup of tea, pull up a chair and immerse yourself.